Beating the bullies

James Merlino participates in a workshop with students from Monbulk Secondary College.

By KATHRYN BERMINGHAM

JAMES Merlino joined more than 50 Year 7 students at Monbulk College last week to mark the National Day of Action against Bullying and Violence.
More than 800,000 students across the country took part in the fifth annual event, which encourages students to be ‘bully stoppers’ by taking a stand against bullying in schools.
Listening to the student presentations before taking part in an anti-bullying workshop and game, Mr Merlino said bullying was common but could be curbed.
“Bullying is a serious issue that affects up to one in five young people – it can happen anytime, anywhere and to anyone,” he said.
“The National Day of Action against Bullying and Violence is a timely reminder that we need to stand up to bullying and cyberbullying, and be Bully Stoppers.”
Clinical psychologist Andrew Fuller also attended the event, addressing students on the impact that one person taking a stand against bullying could make. Focusing particularly on cyberbullying, he said social media users should show caution in choosing what they shared.
“It’s really important to stay safe online and think about what you’re posting – check your privacy settings for all social media sites, and before you post something, ask yourself whether you’re comfortable with strangers seeing and sharing it,” he said.
“When it comes to cyber bullying, generally it’s best not to respond. Save and store the content, and talk to an adult. You can also block or delete the bully from your contact list.”
He advised parents to closely monitor their children’s internet usage.
“If your child is being cyber bullied, it’s good to stay involved. Work out strategies together, and look on it as an opportunity to strengthen your relationship.”
Mr Merlino agreed that a collaborative approach should be used in eradicating bullying.
“Everyone has a role to play in stopping bullying – if you see someone being bullied, speak up and offer them support, or tell an adult,” he said.