EVERY once in a while, a tragedy occurs of such magnitude that no-one is left unaffected.
This is particularly true when a small community is involved.
And it’s during times like these that social places like football clubs, schools and community hubs become not only a place of refuge and connection, but a place of healing for those who are hurting.
In such times, a grieving community often finds a way forward, even when there seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel.
In light of the tragic events that unfolded in Avonsleigh last Tuesday, it should be remembered that this region is renowned for its support and resilience.
There is support available for everyone, right around the Yarra Ranges, whether it is in the form of a neighbour or a mate, or the coming together of a community.
No matter if you’re born and bred here or a tree-changer, it doesn’t take long to understand there are deep connections within this region, particularly when sporting clubs and schools are involved.
In this region, teens don’t just attend school with each other, but play sports and spend weekends together, and watch each other grow into adulthood.
It’s important to understand that such institutions are more than just a space for recreation and competition.
Sporting clubs are places where life-long bonds are formed, often enduring long after you’ve stopped playing.
Clubs are built on more than just winning games, but a culture of helping out your mate and enjoying each other’s company.
Which is why, when tragedy strikes, clubs can hurt, but also why they are vitally important.
As our society has progressed, it’s become more evident we don’t need to lock away our emotions.
If we’re finding things tough, it’s no crime to say, ‘hey, I’m not doing that well’.